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Finding a balance between the three

I’m stuck in a loop of which of the 3 is the most important? God, family, or medicine? 

If you’re like me, which hopefully you’re not, you don’t know the answer because you don’t have the correct one. I haven’t had one more correct than the other. I’ve noticed we think one is more correct than the other because none of us truly know the answer. The correct answer lies within the one we have the most correct answer with: God, family, or doctor? 

In a brain injury case, especially like mine, all three are correct. But then they aren’t. Because I forget which one gave me the most correct answer. Then, the correct answer gets more complicated when you have to see a million doctors. So then, you go based on feeling. Because you don’t have the “correct answer”, you get overwhelmed. 

Here’s what I’ve learned in my 28 years of experience (which I know, to many thats young, so it’s hard to know my audience), I go by what feels the most correct. In my experience, everyone is correct to a certain extent. Above all, it’s what you think is the most correct from personal experience. Brain injuries are the hardest to answer questions for because you can’t see the brain. Brain injuries are frustrating.

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